Joshua Safran provides us a road map on how to redefine bravery. He says bravery isn’t a lack of fear, it’s understanding our fears and battling them anyway. This is especially true when helping those impacted by family and domestic violence find a life different than what they were given.

Joshua’s work on family violence goes back more than a decade. He was featured in a documentary, Crime After Crime, which told the story of Deborah Peagler, a woman brutally abused by her boyfriend. She was sentenced to 25 years to life for her connection to his murder. Joshua and his legal team won her freedom. The gripping and award-winning film debuted at Sundance and had its television premiere on Oprah’s OWN Network.

While collaborating with Deborah, she encouraged Joshua to share his own stories of family violence. She asked him to summon his own bravery, so that he might serve to help others – especially men and boys who struggled with similar challenges.

Out of that came the literary memoir Free Spirit: Growing Up On the Road and Off the Grid. It’s a gripping and powerful account of Joshua’s childhood. Parts of his story are unique, such as growing up with a single mom searching for the golden age of the 60’s long after it had ended. However, parts are all too universal, including life as a young man trying to live with an abusive stepfather.

Today, Joshua is an attorney but also an outspoken advocate for social justice. He uses his life story to help inform and empower others to battle family violence.

The 10 questions:

1. In just one sentence, what is your purpose in life?

Telling stories that inspire people to walk an audaciously righteous path, allowing them to realize their highest potential.

2. How has this work changed you?

Writing Free Spirit transformed my most shameful and humiliating secrets into my most powerful assets and defining characteristics.

3. What do you get from giving?

A tremendous sense of satisfaction and personal & spiritual healing.

4. Who is a living hero and what would you ask them, given the chance?

Ayaan Hirsi Ali: How do you renew your bravery every day?
(Ali is a Dutch-Somali activist who fights for global women’s rights — and against female genital mutilation).

5. What everyday resources could help you achieve your philanthropic goals?

Breaking through the awful empty noise that defines the Internet age to engage in meaningful conversation on the substantive issues of our day.

6. What is a burning question that you have for this community?

How can the stories of others inspire you to (re)dedicate yourself to the issues you are passionate about?

7. What would the title of your book be?

I’ve just written one called Free Spirit: Growing Up On the Road and Off the Grid. Book trailer here.

8. Tell us something you rarely share in public.

I still carry with me deep shame that I wasn’t able to protect my mother from my abusive stepfather when I was a boy.

9. What advice do you have for others who aspire to be citizen philanthropists?

There is no one else but you. If you are waiting for an expert to materialize and solve the problems of your community, you will die waiting.

10. What question do you wish I had asked, and what is the answer?

Q: With so many things to do, why take time out of everyday to give back?
A: Not only is it the righteous path, it’s the path that will bring the most meaning to your life.

Originally posted on Talking Good.

Editor’s Note: This piece reflects an individual opinion and is not a reported story from Oakland Local. Oakland Local invites community residents to share their views about events and issues in Oakland.
For guidelines, see:
For more information on posting to community voices, see The word on Oakland Local’s Community Voices posts,

About The Author

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.